Circle of Security is many things, but here are some of the things it isn't:
You may think it's strange to have a section that tells you not to join us, but we are 100% committed to supporting families to raise securely attached children who enjoy deep connections with their parents. We want as many parents as possible who need this program to have access and if you're with us for the wrong reason, or think it is something that it isn't, there's a family who missed out. All the groups are small, so that we can connect and learn from each other. Every parent needs to want to be there or they're taking up the spot of another parent who needs the program. We want to work with families who want to work with us and make their relationship with their child deeper, stronger and more connected. So, if you are looking for any of the following, please choose a different program.
1. An easy, 'tick-n-flick' course to get your ex or the Court off your back. Please, unless you're genuinely wanting to improve the relationship you have with your child (even if it's already great!), don't come to this course.
2. You will not learn how to dominate your child. You will not learn how to ignore negative behaviour and praise the behaviour you want to see. If you think you need a program like that, this isn't the one for you.
3. A magic solution. This program absolutely works to create connection between children and parents. However, it won't happen overnight. You absolutely can see change after just one session, but long lasting change takes a long term approach. If you're looking for a quick fix, please, look elsewhere (that said, many parents report immediate change, but you do need to stick with it and keep evolving).
4. A course where you can blame everyone else. Circle of Security is about YOUR relationship with your child so you need to be able to look at what you're doing, how you're reacting and be honest with yourself. If you don't think you have the ability to look inside yourself, then you should reconsider joining us.
As we said, we are 100% committed to supporting families. We know this program works. If you're ready to connect with your child on a deeper level, Join Us NOW!